Chapter Summary

Words of King Lemuel on the dangers of intemperance and the worth of a godly woman.

Discussion Questions for Proverbs, Chapter 31

1. How does Proverbs 31 inspire or challenge your personal values and beliefs about the role of genders?
2. In what ways do you see the virtues described in Proverbs 31 reflected in your own life or the lives of women you know?
3. We are told in Proverbs 31:1 that King Lemeul's mother taught him this proverb. How would a mother today teach her son when he is looking for a wife?
4. Proverbs 31 teaches that a woman is to take care of the home and trade in the marketplace. How was this received at the time period Proverbs was written? Why would someone disagree with the teaching in contemporary society?
5. How do the roles and responsibilities described in Proverbs 31 relate to discussions about gender roles and equality in modern times?
6. How do different cultures or religious traditions interpret the concept of virtue, and how does it align with or differ from the virtues outlined in Proverbs 31?
7. Paul writes in 1 Cor 14:34-35 "the women should keep silent in the churches. For they are not permitted to speak, but should be in submission, as the Law also says. If there is anything they desire to learn, let them ask their husbands at home. For it is shameful for a woman to speak in church." Contrast this to Proverbs 31:26 "She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness." What do you think is the proper Biblical role for women in contemporary society?
8. What are some practical steps or habits from Proverbs 31 do you think it can or should apply to your own life? Why?
9. How should children honor their mother according to Proverbs 31:28? How can someone honor their mother without verbally praising her?
10. What is the greatest attribute a woman can have according to Proverbs 31:30? What do you look for in a mate and why?

Key Words/Phrase

Virtuous woman, v. 10.

Characters

God, Lemuel, his mother.

Strong Verse(s)

10, 30.